How to Make One-on-One Time Work When You Have Multiple Children

How to Make One-on-One Time Work When You Have Multiple Children

If you're a mom of multiples, you already know balancing quality time with each of your children while managing work, household responsibilities, and your own well-being is no small task. It can feel like there just aren’t enough hours in the day—and sometimes, not enough of you to go around.

But here’s the truth: you don’t need more time—you need intentional time. And that’s exactly what we’re all about at Quality Time Collection.

In this blog, you’ll find practical, faith-filled tips to help you make the most of your moments and build meaningful one-on-one connections with each of your children—even on your busiest days.

✅ Why One-on-One Time Matters (Especially with Multiple Children)

When you have more than one child, it’s easy to fall into “group mode”—doing everything together as a family. And while that has its place, each child still needs to feel seen, heard, and individually loved.

Even just 10–15 minutes of undivided attention can:

  • Boost your child’s self-esteem

  • Encourage better communication

  • Improve behavior and emotional regulation

  • Strengthen your bond as parent and child

When your child knows they’re getting your full attention—even for a short time—they feel safe, secure, and cherished. That kind of connection is powerful.

🕒 “But I Don’t Have Time!” (Yes, You Do.)

Working moms of multiple kids—this one's for you. You don’t need to carve out hours of extra time. You just need to spot the built-in moments that are already there.

Here are 3 simple strategies that help moms make time for each child without overhauling your schedule:

1. Use Daily Routines for Quality Time

You’re headed to run errands, cooking dinner, or folding laundry. Invite one child to join you. Talk, ask a silly question, or just be present with them.

2. Give Each Child Their “Day”

Assign each child a day of the week to choose a meal, lead prayer, or pick the bedtime activity. This gives them something to look forward to—and a built-in moment to shine.

3. Short but Special QT Moments

Color together for 10 minutes before bed. Do one devotional page after dinner. Play one round of a card game in the morning. These “mini moments” are meaningful.

Being a mom of multiples is a full-time calling—especially when you’re also managing a career and daily life. But with a little intention and the right tools, you can spend quality time with each of your children without burning out.

Your kids don’t need more of you—they need the version of you that’s present, patient, and prayerful. And mama, that version already exists.

So, breathe deep, give yourself grace, and start small. One moment. One child. One connection at a time.

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